Criteria Options

Basically every human longing for someone / couple is good for him, but do we ever looked in the mirror and judge ourselves?

sometimes we just give judgments on others and ignore our assessment of ourselves. .
Criteria for couples like what you going to make later life companion?when the question was in the catapult to a cleric / Kyai / ustajah, they replied "Of course I longed for a reply pretty / handsome, kind and who particularly distinguished pious / Soleha, because I own a cleric / clerics / ustajah"
when asked to a robber / murderer they also crave the same criteria (pretty / handsome, kind, pious / Soleha), with excuses because they see themselves a robber / pembuhuh, they hope to get a good companion, who can guide / lead them toward goodness .

when in the pose that question to a prostitute / gigolo, they also give the same statement about those criteria such as the cleric / clerics / ustajah / robber / murderer, they expect a companion who can take them out of the hole contempt. . .
for the last time, ask yourself, whether you deserve to get a good partner and whether you've made deserve a good spouse?prepare yourself to be included in the criteria which the desire / desires (selection criteria) by others, because, God willing, we all long for someone who will be there before us and after that happened immediately prepared tuk pick her up. .